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Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Mixed Tapes... Well, Mixed Playlists

Unlike over-primped bangs, neon colored clothes, or Garbage Pail Kids, the mixed tape is one of the few creations of the 80's that made sense.

For the first time in history, people where able to mix and match information they owned, all you needed was a collection of tapes and a stereo (a.k.a. boom-box) with dual tape decks. It was the precursor of the information age.

People had the ability to create their own soundtracks for their own lives, something extraordinarily common today in the world of playlists of 5,000 songs.

one of the few ideas created by the 80s that wasn't oversize, neon colored, and ???. Furthermore, it is one of the very few ideas that are still done today. The collecting and arranging songs with all of their thoughts and feeling in an order specifically chosen to illicit an emotional response from the person listening to it. It a way, it's a form of art

Many years ago, I began associating songs to my friends. It wasn't just that a song always reminded me of them, it was that the song defined that person or our relationship or both at the moment it was paired. Sometimes it happened right away, sometimes it took years for that right song to find it's way to my ear at a time I was reflecting on my relationship with someone. Sometimes that person would bring a song along with them to my ears.

Some of these songs I had never even listen to with the person. Some of them they gave to me. Some it was our song.

All of them, however, were paired by my brain without me even choosing. The song just fit and stuck. As far as I know, none of the people on this list were ever aware I did this or had chosen a song for them.

In end, I have made many good friendships and this is song for all of them. It's not the soundtrack to my life. Instead, it's the soundtrack to my relationships, to my friendships. This playlist "shows" who I've cared about and who's cared about me and is as diverse as my friends. Those who have entered my world and effected it, touched it, influenced it.

I struggled with whether or not to explain why I feel each song fit its respected person, but in the end, I felt that was between me and them. I also struggled with the order they would be presented. A normal mix tape would be ordered in a meaning full manner to color the picture being presented. Since these are about my life and relationships, I ordered them in chronological order based on when I met the person which has little relation to when the song/friend pairing was made.

So without further adieu, my Friend Album:

  1. Hope - Take My Breath Away by Berlin
  2. Shawn - Bad Ass Bitch by 2 Live Crew
  3. Derek - American Pie by Don McLean
  4. Jennifer - Old West by Five Iron Frenzy
  5. Dani - Dancing Queen by ABBA
  6. - Fly me to the Moon by Frank Senatra
  7. Laura - Christmas Time is Here by Vince Guaraldi Trio from A Charlie Brown Christmas
  8. - Martyr by Rusted Root
  9. Myles - Wagon Wheel by Old Crow Medicine Show
  10. Peggy - Chantilly Lace by The Big Bopper
  11. Stacey - All I Want Is You by Barry Louis Polisar
  12. - Down Home Girl by Old Crow Medicine Show
  13. Gabrielle - Take It Off by Ke$ha
  14. Rachel - Teenage Dream by Katy Perry
  15. Hollie - Ring of Fire by Johnny Cash
  16. Joe - Two of Us by The Beatles
  17. Rebecca - I Will Wait by Mumford & Sons
  18. - The Quiz by Hello Saferide

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